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Title: h-ego sh-ego you-go ego Post by: elfun on Nov 16, 2012 12:51 am If you want to reach a state of bliss, then go beyond your ego and the internal dialogue. Make a decision to relinquish the need to control, the need to be approved, and the need to judge. Those are the three things the ego is doing all the time. It's very important to be aware of them every time they come up.
Title: Re: h-ego sh-ego you-go ego Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Nov 16, 2012 03:29 am If you want to reach a state of bliss, then go beyond your ego and the internal dialogue. Make a decision to relinquish the need to control, the need to be approved, and the need to judge. Those are the three things the ego is doing all the time. It's very important to be aware of them every time they come up. Have you learned about these things from a teacher? Or are they factors that you have noticed in spiritual growth? This is what i have found: The internal dialogue can only be turned off by active meditation techniques and sincerely asking one or more masters for help. The need for control will bring you around uncontrolable stuations and people and conversely: control freaks. Approval only lasts while you are satisfying the needs and desires of others. It is only temporary and approval soon fades in one way or another: People are fickle in their approval of us. Lastly: the need to judge attracts us to people who judge us and to constant imperfect situations so that we learn that expectations will constantly be frustrated until we learn tolerance. Think. It over and balance the thoughts that release within in you. You will find that the people you love and your friends will manifest these qualities so you/we can eventially see the source of all the drama coming from within ourselves. Everything around us is a mirror and we eventually stop blamimg and start appreciating. Thanks for the insights Elfun.. Jitendra |