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Title: I just wondered....... Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Oct 26, 2012 11:11 pm I just wondered..... why do people love those who do not love them and then
are not in love with those people who love them? I have been thinking about this for some time and came to the conclusion that we really should not keep fooling ourselves. we should just recognize that some people are just not going to be good for us. or at the very least get a grasp on the limitations of the relationship. some people just hold on to impossible dreams with other people. sometimes I see myself as 1 of those some people. why do people keep on going on torturing themselves in their attempt to stay with somebody that's untenable; like holding on to an untenable position. or dream a dream to be with someone that is unrealistic for them? this subject has a lot of facets so I just thought I'd throw out the initial questions for now and see if anybody's responsive to it. Jitendra Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: flying squirrel on Oct 27, 2012 02:13 am I just thought I'd throw out the initial questions for now and see if anybody's responsive to it. Jitendra Hey Jitendra ! 8) excellent idea, just throw out the question, HA HA ! ;D ;D could be a simple answer, maybe it just wasn't meant to be ? Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Oct 27, 2012 02:24 am I just thought I'd throw out the initial questions for now and see if anybody's responsive to it. Jitendra Hey Jitendra ! 8) excellent idea, just throw out the question, HA HA ! ;D ;D could be a simple answer, maybe it just wasn't meant to be ? well now squirrel.... if I actually had thrown out the question it would not given you the pleasure of having answered.. seeing as to the fact that you actually did answer, and usually do when there is drama around; it seems to have served an important result. since you my friend..... we're meant to be here for some important lessons. and most importantly I like you too much to go over there right now. ;D Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: flying squirrel on Oct 27, 2012 02:29 am well now squirrel.... if I actually had thrown out the question it would not given you the pleasure of having answered.. seeing as to the fact that you actually did answer and usually do when there is drama around; it seems to have served in important result. since you my friend we're meant to be here for some important lessons. and most importantly I like you too much to go over there right now. ;D don't see any drama in this question ......... yet ;D 8) off to make some popcorn, just in case ... for later Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Oct 27, 2012 02:37 am well now squirrel.... if I actually had thrown out the question it would not given you the pleasure of having answered.. seeing as to the fact that you actually did answer and usually do when there is drama around; it seems to have served in important result. since you my friend we're meant to be here for some important lessons. and most importantly I like you too much to go over there right now. ;D don't see any drama in this question ......... yet ;D 8) off to make some popcorn, just in case ... for later simple questions deserve simple answers. everything was meant to be even the passing of a squirrel such as yourself. ;) what???? popping popcorn these days and no acorns! it's sacrilege. Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: flying squirrel on Oct 27, 2012 06:20 am what???? popping popcorn these days and no acorns! it's sacrilege. popcorn was a special treat as a squirrelkin 8) and so much quicker than spending the afternoon looking for acorns ! ;D words of Squisdom ! ;D 8) Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: flying squirrel on Oct 27, 2012 05:02 pm what???? popping popcorn these days and no acorns! it's sacrilege. popcorn was a special treat as a squirrelkin 8) and so much quicker than spending the afternoon looking for acorns ! ;D words of Squisdom ! ;D 8) you are so squirrely. and to think I like you anyway. I just wonder if you have a microwave up there in that tree hut of yours. and if it runs off of solar panels ??? Hmmmm I'm going to have to try some of that popacorn have you ever tried mama corn. it's a softer variety. now want you be careful squirrel. rumor has it that Don Diego is part of the underground drug cartel enforcement. you ever notice how he shows up wihen things get a little weird around here? Jitendra [/color] Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: flying squirrel on Oct 27, 2012 05:07 pm back to the question
micro in my tree hut ? :o are you serious ? ;D Ranger Rick has a micro and he enjoys listening to my Squisdom while we munch on the popcorn gets lonely for him all day in the forest one can only meditate and talk to the trees for so long !! HA HA !! ;D ;D Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Oct 27, 2012 10:21 pm Ranger Rick ;D comon squirrel that sounds so contrived. :P
At least you used a euphemism instead of having the obvious 'pr' in front of the word. :o my apologies i need to explain something to you.... Often the computer does not connect to towers when i am traveling so i have to use the cell phone when i connect to the internet. When i do this the commands i can use are limited and it often leads to a host of issues. The best thing i can do is wait till the computer connects again and then clear up some of the issues. Please consider thinking the best of someone before thinking the worst. Sorry... Steve Quote from: flying squirrel Hey Jitendra ! 8) taking a shortcut brother ? your reply in my post ? do you mind ? well, I do 8) MOST confusing ;D can you tidy it up and put your reply in a seperate box ? thanx ! then you can delete this post of mine 8) Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Oct 27, 2012 10:45 pm I just wondered..... why do people love those who do not love them and then are not in love with those people who love them? I have been thinking about this for some time and came to the conclusion that we really should not keep fooling ourselves. we should just recognize that some people are just not going to be good for us. or at the very least get a grasp on the limitations of the relationship. some people just hold on to impossible dreams with other people. sometimes I see myself as 1 of those some people. why do people keep on going on torturing themselves in their attempt to stay with somebody that's untenable; like holding on to an untenable position. or dream a dream to be with someone that is unrealistic for them? this subject has a lot of facets so I just thought I'd throw out the initial questions for now and see if anybody's responsive to it. Jitendra O.K. No one is going to answer my question now. Accept Squirrel who usually sheds a lightness on these kind of subjects. Perhaps he thinks it is helpful to lift the gravity. i have come up with an answer for myself though: It is best to be grateful for the love others have for you even though you might not be able to return it in a way that they would so desire. and..... not expect others to return love to you in the way you would like. All you can do is work on yourself and notice the reactions that are coming from you from feeling 'hurt' or not getting what you want. Maybe that is part of the spiritual lesson anyhow. It often seems to me that our spiritual guides do not have much sympathy for our personal desires. This world can be a very frustrating place if we are not aware of the spiritual purpose we are here for. Most of the human race are intent on satisfying personal desire and creating new desires in the process with no perception that it is desire that causes an endless chain of karma and cycle of rebirth on the earth plane. i am just grateful to have a few personal desires satisfied or understood. In reflection it has showed me much about the people that come into my life and their motives. When i have found others that genuinely care about me i find the hand of God clearly working behind their actions. Jitendra Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: flying squirrel on Oct 28, 2012 12:03 am Ranger Rick ;D comon squirrel that sounds so contrived. :P At least you used a euphemism instead of having the obvious 'pr' in front of the word. :o my apologies i need to explain something to you.... Often the computer does not connect to towers when i am traveling so i have to use the cell phone when i connect to the internet. When i do this the commands i can use are limited and it often leads to a host of issues. The best thing i can do is wait till the computer connects again and then clear up some of the issues. Please consider thinking the best of someone before thinking the worst. Sorry... Steve common squirrel, HA HA !! ;D hey, let me explain something to you brother there was no thought whatsoever of those extra two letters, you mentioned... I wasn't using an euphemism for anything, no hidden meaning there, certainly NOT what you were referring to :o no worries mate, I wasn't thinking the worst of you for replying in my space I just didn't like it, LOL ! ;D you can finish tidying up when you get a chance, no rush Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: flying squirrel on Oct 28, 2012 12:10 am O.K. No one is going to answer my question now. Accept Squirrel who usually sheds a lightness on these kind of subjects. Perhaps he thinks it is helpful to lift the gravity. i have come up with an answer for myself though: It is best to be grateful for the love others have for you even though you might not be able to return it in a way that they would so desire. and..... not expect others to return love to you in the way you would like. All you can do is work on yourself and notice the reactions that are coming from you from feeling 'hurt' or not getting what you want. Maybe that is part of the spiritual lesson anyhow. It often seems to me that our spiritual guides do not have much sympathy for our personal desires. This world can be a very frustrating place if we are not aware of the spiritual purpose we are here for. Most of the human race are intent on satisfying personal desire and creating new desires in the process with no perception that it is desire that causes an endless chain of karma and cycle of rebirth on the earth plane. i am just grateful to have a few personal desires satisfied or understood. In reflection it has showed me much about the people that come into my life and their motives. When i have found others that genuinely care about me i find the hand of God clearly working behind their actions. Jitendra Hey Jitendra ! 8) Patience, patience :P you just posted your question yesterday and you want answers NOW ! ? give people time to think about this question squirrel's personal opinion on these love questions: seems to me you get too bogged down with this love idea disregard my opinion, if need be ;D Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: yoshi on Oct 28, 2012 12:23 am i thought ranger rick was a racoon... ??? ;)
jitendra wrote: Quote Maybe that is part of the spiritual lesson [/color]anyhow. this is what the earthly plane and human body are all about. lessons...learning...finding god again. jitendra wrote: It often seems to me that our spiritual guides do not have much sympathy for our personal desires. no they do not. they point us to god. jitendra wrote: and..... not expect others to return love to you in the way you would like. expectation is human not of god or soul. expect nothing from everyone (humans). never count on human beings.....count on god. Jitendra wrote: Most of the human race are intent on satisfying personal desire and creating new desires in the process with no perception that it is desire that causes an endless chain of karma and cycle of rebirth on the earth plane. spot on. love&hugs&om yoshi Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Oct 28, 2012 01:34 am Ranger Rick ;D comon squirrel that sounds so contrived. :P At least you used a euphemism instead of having the obvious 'pr' in front of the word. :o my apologies i need to explain something to you.... Often the computer does not connect to towers when i am traveling so i have to use the cell phone when i connect to the internet. When i do this the commands i can use are limited and it often leads to a host of issues. The best thing i can do is wait till the computer connects again and then clear up some of the issues. Please consider thinking the best of someone before thinking the worst. Sorry... Steve common squirrel, HA HA !! ;D hey, let me explain something to you brother there was no thought whatsoever of those extra two letters, you mentioned... I wasn't using an euphemism for anything, no hidden meaning there, certainly NOT what you were referring to :o no worries mate, I wasn't thinking the worst of you for replying in my space I just didn't like it, LOL ! ;D you can finish tidying up when you get a chance, no rush It must be part of my imagination. The mind gets corrupted when allowed to roam freely on it's own. 8) guess i should keep my signature/squirrel/sunglasses on to keep this from happening. 8) Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Oct 28, 2012 01:42 am i thought ranger rick was a racoon... yoshi ??? ;) Let me see now: ricky racoon or is it pricky prack prooh. ??? oh no now my head is spinning again. Where are elfun, my personal council, or the 10 moods of Dr. Spook :-[ Title: Re: I just wondered....... Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Oct 28, 2012 07:43 am back to the question micro in my tree hut ? :o are you serious ? ;D Ranger Rick has a micro and he enjoys listening to my Squisdom while we munch on the popcorn gets lonely for him all day in the forest one can only meditate and talk to the trees for so long !! HA HA !! ;D ;D I get the feeling that there's some truth to the squirrel life in the forest. of course some people would think we had a nice trip on acid but I get this picture of you in a large forest somewhere in the Midwest and you actually do know a ranger. I would say you're probably a bachelor and some what of a loner. maybe it takes 1 to know 1. Jitendra |