Message #43392

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I am learning about doubt and patience.

As an individual, here to learn- I choose and cocreate with God.

With regards to relationships. Do I want to condemn others who behave to situations differently than me?

If I believe they have a good Heart- should I carry anger, hatred or doubt the other when they do not reciprocate?

No. I believe I have a choice. I choose to practice patience and cast doubt aside. And whatever happens, I can always work on the feelings moving within my self as a way to create peace.

Perhaps the relationship is changed, and we are carried elsewhere in a environment more suited to our temperament. This is fine too. The idea is, should circumstance mean I encounter someone from a previous relationship- how do I want to treat them? What feelings do I carry inside of me?

Perhaps methods for resolving issues are different, and others can not rise to the occasion as we would hope. But it does not mean I wish to carry the energy of doubt, condemnation or contempt for others. And perhaps in this way, patience allows the needs of others to be met.

We may not always be able to practice these things in the moment. But in any moment, we can choose. And, as spiritual seekers- we recognize the refinement of Ego can mean the clashing of personalities.