Message #41252

[Jitendra Hydonus]

Have really noticed how friends can take things very personal when they were not even meant that way. Sometimes we have to make decisions that are best for our own spiritual evolution that affect friends very negatively. It is not that we ‘judge’ them but that we must make decisions for ourselves when opportunities that help those with our similar interests give us and share with us appear. We can still be happy for the success of friends without being judgmental. It may take time for others to understand our decisions and understand us. In the meantime they may feel hostile and hurt 😔 but we may have to let them contend with their own egos. As we also have had to work on the death of our own egos through our spiritual training.