i don't think it's healthy i'm imposing my will onto so many friendships. i get upset when we don't have proper communication. selfish rather, blind to whatever might really be happening. relationships should flow, not feel forced- right . . . ? our needs or desires. . . no worries. life is good : D very interesting. just curious. it's rather selfish to get upset because my needs are not being met but it happens. . i'm curious how meditation has helped you fix these areas of your life ?
What is the difference between needs and desires? What r needs now may appear to b desires latter on in time. Relationships flow until the time that we find our interests changing. Meditation helps you realize what another person really is inside and not what they hope to appear to others. Many times we think we want something but find out that what we see in others is not what they r able to see in themselves. Meditation also helps us to understand what we really r and not what we think we r. i have always liked this saying> Don't believe everything u think.
Jitendra
